PONDERING

Last Tuesday, John Heaney, pastor emeritus of St. Mary Parish in Carolina, Bob Hawkins, present pastor of St. Luke Parish in Barrington and former director of the Catholic Center, and I met for our homily preparation session. Heaney and I have been meeting every other Tuesday for about 26 years. Hawkins joined the group about 13 years ago. Those meetings, first suggested by Heaney, have been one of the finest blessings in my life. It is all too easy in the business of parish life and ministry to let preparing to preach be reduced to an hour or so on Saturday afternoon, which is a shame, since preaching is the second most important exercise of priesthood.

Over the years we have shared themes, stories and different ways to hear what the scriptures are saying to us. Our gatherings keep things fresh, creative and interesting. Trust me when I tell you that many of the stories you have heard over the years you would have never heard without our gathering together.

One of the things that always amazes me is how a quote, insight or story can be buried in one of our resource materials that is only uncovered years and years later. Here is one from last Tuesday; it comes from a resource guide called Celebration and it is dated 1978. The quote is from John XXIII, whose vision and spirit I believe is still alive, if dormant, in our church. “If we could step outside ourselves, outside our Latin, our rings, our rules, our protocol, our dignities and grades, and love and feel love and act out that love, we would see our truth in fullness. All people would listen.” So easy to say; so difficult to live. One of the things that makes his quote so powerful is that he lived its message and all people did listen until his successors put back some of the barriers he removed.

We are living witnesses to the slow decline of our church. The signs are all around us. Church is not a priority in many peoples’ lives. Church, the Sacraments, the community at prayer seem to be realities that are nice if we have the time and more and more we don’t have the time.

All is not bleak. For those who remain an active part of the church there are many positive signs. Our public worship is life-giving. More and more people are actively engaged in the life and mission of the parish. Our children are being taught in an environment of loving concern. Gone is the fear that was so prevalent in my catholic education.

We are the remnant. If we keep living our faith the Holy Spirit will change hearts by working through us.

 

 

 

 

 

 

MASS INTENTIONS

Saturday, November 8

5:00 p.m.                       Robert Cetenich

Sunday, November 9

8:00 a.m.                       M. Rita Brock

                                    John F. Brock

9:15 a.m.                       Gerard DiSchino

                                    Ralph Pescatore

11:35 a.m.                     Maximiana Sanchez

                                    Antonio Locatelli

                                    Lt. Carmen DeCubellis

Wednesday, November 12

12:00 p.m.                     John and Julia Fressie

Saturday, November 15

5:00 p.m.                       John Rial

                                    Gerald Ward

                                    Vincent J. Dinapoli

Sunday, November 16

8:00 a.m.                       George McAuliffe

                                    Filomena Simoes

                                    Felix LeGoff

9:15 a.m.                       Florita Zafra

                                    Candida Rebecca

                                    Matthew Rebecca

11:35 a.m.                     Iris Rugge

 

 

VETERAN’S DAY

Tuesday, November 11

Mass at 9 a.m. at the

Catholic Center

 

 

BAPTISM PREPARATION

The next BAPTISM PREPARATION class is Tuesday, November 11 from 7 to 9 p.m. in the Parish Hall. Parent preparation is required and arrangements should be made at least three months prior to the baby’s due date. If you have any questions or plan to have a child baptized, please call the office at 783-7459.

Please note: Baptism preparation sessions are held four times a year (February, May, August, November).

 

BOOK OF THE DEAD

During the month of November you are invited to inscribe the names for your deceased loved ones in our “Book of the Dead.” The prayers of the entire community will be joined together for our beloved dead. This book is located in the front of the church next to the Easter candle.

 

 

 

 

RELIGIOUS FORMATION

Religious Formation Classes will be held as scheduled November 9 for classes Pre-K to 8.

 

GRADE 5 PARENT REMINDER

Our first parent meeting is Wednesday, November 12 at 7 p.m. in the hall. Parent participation is an important aspect of sacramental preparation, and parents are required to attend all parent meetings unless an older child has participated within the last three years.

 

CONFIRMATION NOTES

The next Phase I retreat date is scheduled for Monday, November 24, from 4:30 – 8:00 p.m. in the Parish Hall.

 

PHASE I & II

The next class will be on Sunday, November 23 at St. Mary Star of the Sea, Narragansett, from 1 – 2:30 p.m. Val Limar Jansen will be the featured guest – please note the change of venue. Any questions please call the Religious Formation Office 789-0417 or email glardaro@ctkri.org

 

STEPHEN MINISTRY MESSAGE

In the next few days, we will be honoring veterans. Not only the men and women who have served and have returned home to resume their lives, but also our deceased veterans who gave their all for our country. For some of us, the talk will bring sad and disturbing memories. The only way to work through them is to open up and talk about them, but finding someone who is not also suffering can be hard. A Stephen Minister can be just that person: listening, caring for you, and not judging your feelings. Call Carol Hartley (783-4036 or email carolhartley@cox.net) or Larry Bartley (865-7276 or email LJBJR@cox.net) for more information.

 

MAKE A DIFFERENCE

Join us Sunday, November 9 for our workshop in the hall from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. Instructions and supplies are available.

 

BIBLE STUDY

The last bible study meeting for this session is Thursday, November 13 at 7 p.m. in the hall.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TICKETS! TICKETS! TICKETS!

The 20th Anniversary Feast of Christ the King Concert will be one night only on Friday, November 21 at 7 p.m. at the Prout School. Tickets are after all masses this weekend and in the Office while they last: Adults $15 and Children 12 & under $10. Join us for an evening of contemporary liturgical music. Call 783-7459 for more information.

 

BOOK FAIR

Our annual Book Fair will be held November 15/16 after all masses in the hall. Stop in and see the selection of Catholic reading materials and gifts from Tally’s, Paulist Press and books by Brother Mickey McGrath.

 

ADVENT WREATH WORKSHOP

The Advent Wreath Workshop is on Saturday, November 29 at 10 a.m. in the hall. Sign ups are next weekend, November 15/16 after all the masses. We will have a limited number of “to go” kits if you cannot attend that day. Cost of supplies is $10.

 

NOVEMBER WALL HANGINGS

The bulletin will feature short biographies of the holy men and women wall hangings displayed in the church. Also, thanks to Audrey Bernier, whose name was inadvertently omitted, for her contribution to the project.

ELIZABETH ANN SETON was born in August, 1774 to an Episcopalian Family. She became a Catholic in 1805 and started a Catholic School in Baltimore and founded the American Sisters of Charity (a teaching community).

DOROTHY DAY was born in 1897. She became Catholic after her daughter’s birth and began The Catholic Worker Movement in 1933. Many historians describe her as the most influential American Catholic of the last one hundred years.

JOHN HENRY CARDINAL NEWMAN is considered the most illustrious of English coverts to the Catholic Church. Cardinal Newman became a Catholic in 1845. He gave lectures on the “Idea of University”, and created the university system, which is why the Newman Club took his name. Pope Leo elected Newman Cardinal in 1879 and he died in August 1890.

SAINT STEPHEN was one of the first of seven deacons in the early Christian church. Stephen spoke with such wisdom and power, converting many to Christianity, that the elders of the synagogue plotted against him, charging that he spoke against Moses and God. He was attacked by a crowd and stoned to death, becoming the first martyr of the church.

 

 

 

WORLD WIDE MARRIAGE ENCOUNTER

“Do you not know that you are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?” The Spirit of God dwells in our marriage Sacrament, also. What have we done to build up this temple? The next Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend in New England is December 5 –7.  For more information call Ralph and Jane Becker at 1-800-710-WWME or visit our webpage at www.wwmeMA.org.

 

YOUTH MISSION WEEK

The Office for Comprehensive Youth Ministry of the Diocese of Providence would like to ask that you assist us in praying for the success of our upcoming 2008 Catholic Youth Mission Week, November 19 –23, especially keeping our middle school and high school children close in your prayers – that they are able to gain a greater understanding and lasting faith from our Youth Mission, “Our God, The Great I Am.  Would you like your child to join this opportunity to grow in their faith? For the schedule and more about this Youth Mission, please visit www.ymcyoprov.org or call 278-4626.

“Do not let anyone treat you as if you are unimportant because you are young. Instead, be an example to the believers with your words, your actions, your love, your faith, and your pure life.” - 1 Timothy 4:12

 

OPEN HOUSES

Bishop Hendricken High School will hold an Open House on Sunday, November 23 at 1 p.m. Information on the academics, college placement, athletic and extracurricular activities will be available. The entrance exam for prospective freshmen and sophomore transfers will be held on Saturday, December 6 at 8:30 a.m. For more information, call the Admissions Office at 739-3450 ext. 162.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

AED/CPR TRAINING AT CHRIST THE KING

Rick Walsh will conduct an AED/CPR training class on Saturday, December 6 from 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. for any parishioners who are interested in being AED and American Heart Association CPR certified. Call the rectory office (783-7459) to register.

 

 

 

 
 
 

 

 

CALENDAR FOR NOVEMBER 8 – 16

Saturday, November 8

7:30 p.m.           International Wine Tasting/Hall

Sunday, November 9

8:30 – 11:30 a.m.           Make a Difference/Hall

Monday, November 10

7:00 p.m.                       Liturgy Planning/Hall

7:30 p.m.                       Parish Council/Library

Tuesday, November 11

Rectory and Religious Formation

Offices Closed/Veteran’s Day Holiday

9:00 a.m.                       Mass/Catholic Center

7:00 p.m.                       Baptism Preparation/Hall

7:30 p.m.                       Parish Activities/Library

Wednesday, November 12

7:00 p.m.                       RCIA/First Reconciliation

Parents Meeting/Hall

7:00 p.m.                       Stephen Ministry

Training/Library

7:30 p.m.                       Social Action/Sunroom

7:30 p.m.                       Choir

Thursday, November 13

7:00 p.m.                       Bible Study/Hall

Saturday/Sunday, November 15 – 16

ANNUAL BOOK FAIR/HALL